Surgery Scheduled

I saw Dr. Morshed on the 4th. He did another short exam and asked me if I was sure I wanted to go through with it. I am sure, although anxious, so we scheduled it for first thing in the morning March 6, 2014 at UCSF Parnassus. I am pretty nervous, this will be the most intensive procedure I have ever had done.

The plan had been originally to take the wedge out of my thigh bone, right above the knee. After doing more calculations the doctor decided it would be best if he took the wedge from the area in the photo below circled in pink. He said taking it from the femur (the thigh bone) would change the angle of my knee, which would be bad. He said taking it from the tibia (the larger lower leg bone) will keep my knee level while straightening my leg some.

The yellow triangle on the photo is where he said he will take the wedge out. He said he will also "clean up" where the purple arrow is pointing. I had a very large tumor removed from that spot when I was 14 years old. Because my skeleton hadn't completely finished forming yet, some of the tumor grew back. Lately, when I sleep wrong with pressure on that area, my leg goes painfully numb there. I think it will be nice to have that hook of bone off, I hope it relieves the painful numbness.

The area circled in blue is where I still have good cartilage cushioning for my knee. By straightening my leg the idea is that my weight will be shifted to that part of my knee. The side not circled has little to no cartilage. It is hoped that this procedure will also relieve the problems with the area circled in red (I call that my stalk of cauliflower because that is what it reminds me of). That is the area that they can't do anything with because a major nerve runs right through there. I think that nerve is part of what is causing me pain. There are tendons, nerves, veins, muscles and who knows what other soft tissue right there also. The best way I've found to describe part of the sensation there is to ask you to imagine strumming your thumb down the stings of a guitar. All of my abnormal bumps "strum" the strings of my soft tissue. It is, of course, much more painful than actually strumming a guitar. Sometimes the bumps get "caught" (like sticking your finger too far between the strings while trying to strum and not being able to get it past the next string because of that) and that is even more painful.

Dr. Morshed told me that I can expect to stay in the hospital 3-4 days, which has me anxious. None of my surgeries have ever had me spend more than one night in the hospital. I suffer from pretty severe anxiety when I am out of my comfort zone (home, work, school) for too long, and I fear this will be way too long. I'm worried about being alone in the hospital too. Being there that long, it will be too much to ask my husband to be there with me the whole time. He can't anyway, he has classes and will have to rest. I will have to work on some coping skills ahead of time with my therapist.

The doctor also told me that I am looking at a long, difficult recovery. I will be on crutches for probably 6 months. Since I have issues with my right wrist I will have to have a special crutch that has a "shelf" to put my forearm on to hold my weight up rather than my hand and wrist with a regular crutch. It looks really tricky to manage and I am really afraid of falling with crutches. I can't remember how long he said I would have to go without even touching my toes to the ground, it was either a couple weeks or a couple of months. (I know, that is a huge difference but I got a little overwhelmed by all the information he was giving me). I am used to being able to walk within a day or two of surgery. It is going to be hard, not being able to do much for myself.

One of the other things that has me anxious is that Dr. Morshed says it will be at least 6 months before I feel any relief. So, in other words, things are about to get much worse before they get better. I am no stranger to pain, but this is probably going to be worse than anything I have ever experienced before. I assume they will keep me comfortable with pain meds, but that could have an impact on my school work. Even if I am able to get back and forth to school, I am concerned that being on pain drugs could negatively impact my school performance. The doctor said I should be able to continue going to school with no problem, but we will see. If it gets too tough, I will ask them to excuse me for this semester and finish after I have healed a little.

I am also worried about my work, I do outreach and won't be able to go out for a while. I am hoping we can work something out so that I can still get my hours in without taxing my healing body too much. I am blessed to work with a couple of truly wonderful agencies and I know they won't just leave me hanging. I only work about 20 hours per month with each agency so I shouldn't miss a whole lot. Both places are flexible about where I get at least some of my monthly hours.

On Feb. 21st I go in for my "prepare" (for surgery) appointment. That morning I also have CT scans scheduled for my right wrist (and my head/sinuses). Once I have healed up enough from this surgery I will be getting ready for wrist surgery next. I am hoping that wrist surgery will make it so I can crochet again without such pain. I really miss crocheting for stress relief and the extra cash it can bring in. 

Hip pain

For a couple of weeks now my right hip has been feeling like something is "catching" when I move. When I sit it feels like something is being pulled in my groin area and it starts to ache after a while. When I am walking, if I move a certain way it feels like my hip is giving out and the pain is more in my backside. I have a moment of panic because it feels like I am going to fall. Because of how twisted and uneven my legs are, my back has started really being a problem for me as well. One of my discs is herniated along with arthritis and exposed/pinched nerves in my spine. The past 2 days my hip and my knee have felt connected, they both hurt at the same time and it feels like a string of pain goes between them at the same time.

My hips next to nonMHE hip xray (gotten off the web). The femoral necks of my hips are thicker and covered in bumps that catch on soft tissue, like tendons, nerves and veins. 

I went to a local protest against some developers today but got the time wrong and showed up about 90 minutes early. I stood around waiting for as long as I could, but ended up going home before anyone else even showed up. I just couldn't take the pain anymore. I want to cry so badly. I am used to being able to do a lot more than I can now and it is frustrating. I feel so worthless and hopeless on days like today, the pain and frustration are overwhelming.

I am also having issues with my pain medication. I have a lot of stomach trouble and can't take many things. I am prescribed 20 mgs of methadone and 20 mgs of flexiril and 500 mg of naproxen. I also use medical cannabis but it is so expensive I can't afford enough for complete relief. This is the most effective combination that I have ever been on, but the methadone is causing chaos with the rest of my body. It is a bit of a trade off, either I have pain or severe nausea for 12-18 hours to relieve it.

Besides making me feel really sick to my stomach for the next 12+ hours, it also causes me to be more dehydrated. Somehow, at the same time it also increases fluid retention in my legs (which is a chronic issue too). I have gotten so dried out from the methadone several times that I was constipated for a week, but it was regularly 3-4 days. Recently I started taking it again and my doctor gave me some natural stool softeners. They seem to help a little but not enough. I also have to deal with a severely really dry mouth. It is harder to study or even hold a conversation because of the mental cloudiness it causes. They also make me itch all over and nod off to sleep any time I sit still for a few minutes. That is really embarrassing in class and dangerous on the bus!

I see Dr. Saam Morshed at the UCSF Orthopedic Institute on Tuesday to talk about an upcoming surgery. I am going to have to mention the hip issue to him. The surgery is to straighten my right femur just above the knee to attempt to help relieve some knee pain I am having. The issue with my hip might complicate things even more (seems to be the story of my life). I really hope it doesn't, I want something to be solvable for me at least once in a while. 

I have decided that the knee and hip problems are more urgent than the right wrist issue, so I definitely want to have this wedge osteotomy surgery first. I am concerned about the straightening procedure though, it is much more complicated than the simple tumor removals I have had done in the past. I usually don't have much concern, the doctors have always done a good job and I healed very quickly. The last surgery was the most recent one though, and I healed much slower and the pain was greater than the surgeries I had years ago.

I am getting anxious to hear what the doctor(s) has to say on Tuesday. I want to get going with this already. I have been seeing doctors and getting passed around from one to the next for almost 2 years over this same issue now. Time to stop talking and start taking action.